ANOTHER EXAMPLE OF SUPERIOR SWEDISH DESIGN

 

 

I am a 5’10”, 130-pound Scandinavian Mistress. I have lived and played in many of the world’s major cultural centers, including Paris, London and Hong Kong. I currently reside and session in Los Angeles. I have a Masters Degree, and I love to travel and engage in physical fitness.

I have been working as a professional Domme for over 6 years, although my involvement with BDSM in my private life began much earlier. I’ve been very lucky to have had several wonderful mentors, most notably, Mistress Simone Justice.

When I’m not traveling and playing in cities such as Chicago and NYC, I own and operate my own studio in Downtown Los Angeles.

My hair is back-length blonde, my eyes are blue, and I wear size 8.5 heels.

Kanske kan du underhålla mig?

Travel Dates

I take great delight in traveling and endeavor to do it as much as my schedule permits. Check back here often- dates will be posted as soon as they are confirmed.

2016

SEPTEMBER

NEW YORK (13-15)

BOSTON (15-17)

CHICAGO (17-20)

AUSTIN (20-22)

*doubles offered with Mistress Cynthia Stone

 

JUNE

CHICAGO (23-25)

NEW YORK (21-23)

*inquire about double options

 

APRIL

NEW YORK (25-28)

 

2015

DECEMBER

NEW YORK (6-8)

*inquire about double options

 

AUGUST

NEW YORK (4-18)

*inquire about double options

 

MAY

LONDON (8)

*Vanilla GF available

 

FEBRUARY

CHICAGO (2-3)

*doubles offered with Mistress Ekatarina Romanovich

NEW YORK (3-6)

*inquire about double options

 

2014

OCTOBER

NEW YORK (14-17)

 

JULY

NEW YORK (9-11)

 

MARCH

CHICAGO (22-23)

*doubles offered with Mistress Ekatarina Romanovich

NEW YORK (24-27)

*doubles offered with Mistress Ekatarina Romanovich

 

JANUARY

NEW YORK (7-9)

 

2013

OCTOBER

CHICAGO (10-12)

NEW YORK (13-15)

 

SEPTEMBER

NEW YORK (3-5)

 

JULY

LONDON (11-12)

 

JUNE

NEW YORK (24-26)

*doubles offered with Mistress Cynthia Stone


 

APRIL

NEW YORK (10-12)

*doubles offered with Mistress Ekatarina Romanovich

 

FEBRUARY

CHICAGO (15-16)

*doubles offered with Mistress Cynthia Stone

 

JANUARY

NEW YORK (8-11)

*doubles offered with Mistress Ekatarina Romanovich

CHICAGO (12-13)

*doubles offered with Mistress Ekatarina Romanovich

 

2012

OCTOBER

CHICAGO (11-12)

NEW YORK (13 and 15)

 

JULY

NEW YORK (20-22)

*doubles offered with Mistress Ekatarina Romanovich

 

JUNE

CHICAGO (3-5)

 

MAY

NEW YORK (17-21)

*doubles offered with Mistress Ekatarina Romanovich

 

MARCH

CHICAGO (26-28)

NEW YORK (29-31)

*doubles offered with Mistress Ekatarina Romanovich

 

JANUARY

PARIS (23-24)

NEW YORK (27-29)

*doubles offered with my vanilla friend on the 28th and 29th!

 

2011

AUGUST

NEW YORK (21-23)

 

SEPTEMBER

CHICAGO (20-22)

LONDON (24-28)

 

OCTOBER

NEW YORK (24-30)

*doubles offered with Mistress Lydia Shiller October 24th, 25th and 26th!

 

DECEMBER

CHICAGO (8-11)

NEW YORK (11-14)

*doubles offered with Mistress Ekatarina Romanovich December 12th, 13th and 14th!

UPDATES

SEPTEMBER TRAVEL DATES

I am excited to announce a bunch of travel dates in September.  I will be traveling with Miss Cynthia Stone, and we will be available for doubles throughout the entire […]

LOS ANGELES AND BEYOND

So I have finally returned home after an extensive time in Europe. I very much look forward seeing you all again here in LA, in Chicago and NYC. I do […]

NYC + CHICAGO IN JUNE + VACATION DATES

Hi Everyone!   I’m excited to be returning to NYC once again this year, this time with Miss Cynthia Stone. Since we are traveling together, we most definitely encourage doubles, […]

NYC IN APRIL

I am excited to finally return to NYC where I will be available for sessions between the 25th and 28th of April. If I haven’t seen you before, you will […]

EKATARINA/DOUBLES

I’m so excited to announce the (temporary) return of Ekatarina Romanovich in Los Angeles. Many of you know how much we love playing together and have asked when she will […]

PLAY PARTY

Hi Everyone! I’m excited to announce that I will be joining the Chi Sisters at their Christmas party at their wonderfully equipped playspace on December 18th at 6pm. Other ladies […]

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PHOTOS

Sessions

VERBAL AND PHYSICAL HUMILIATION

HUMILIATIONA favorite! Verbal abuse, bullying, bitch-slapping, hair-pulling, spitting, human furniture, doormat, trashcan, worm-crawling etc.

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT

CORPORALPaddling, strapping, whipping, flogging, cropping, hairbrush, caning spanking etc.

FOOT, SHOE AND BOOT WORSHIP

BOOTI take great pleasure in all of the above.

SLAVE TRAINING

Positions, chastity, cage training, homework, lifestyle changes etc.

BONDAGE

BONDAGESimple to heavy, cuffs, rope, plastic wrap, strait-jacket, inescapable, predicament, immobile

CBT

CBTI love to get creative here using rope, clamps, clips, ball-crusher, pinwheel, slapping, cropping, weights to name a few things

ROLE PLAY SCENARIOS

ROLEI love role play and excel at this!

SENSORY DEPRIVATION

sensoryVac bed, mummification etc.

NT

NTI love nipple play. I will make you tell me your deepest secrets

ELECTRICITY PLAY

ELECTRICITYViolet wand, bug zappers, tens unit

PLAY PIERCING

PIERCINGHow many can you take?

HUMAN PUNCHING BAG

PUNCHI have extensive experience in boxing and take great delight in this type of session

FINANCIAL DOMINATION

FINANCIALBe my personal piggy bank

DOUBLE DOMME/VANILLA GIRLFRIEND SESSION

doubles_1080PNGFor an additional tribute you can try and please more than you can handle. At the moment I am offering doubles with the following women in LA: the gorgeous and skilled Cynthia Stone, my extraordinary mentor Simone Justice & the one-of-a-kind Georgia Payne. I am also able to bring in Vanilla Girlfriends should you be excited about the idea of being my little play-thing in front of a women who have absolutely no connection to the BDSM scene.

 

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I DO NOT engage in:

ANY SEXUAL ACTIVITY

SMOKING

ENEMAS

STRAP-ON PLAY

SPACE

My fully stocked private dungeon studio an impressive amount of implements, a custom designed bondage table with plenty of attachment points, a spanking horse, a St. Andrew’s Cross, violet wand, a strait jacket, body bag, wrestling mattresses and a vac bed just to name a few things.

GUILTY PLEASURES

I have guilty pleasures, too!

I DO NOT expect gifts, nor do I believe in posting grandiose wishlists. However, I am often asked by clients what small items they can bring with them to their session that might please me. Hence, I have listed some of my favorite things below:

 

EDIBLE

VEGAN GINGER PRODUCTS (Ginger People)
CHOCOLATE (NON-DAIRY, I am a strict Vegan)
MIYOKO’S CULTURED NUT CHEESES (Miyoko’s Kitchen)

 

WEARABLE

KIKI DE MONTPARNASSE
COCO DE MER
AGENT PROVOCATEUR
SKINS

My sizes are 34B, medium panties and size B stockings. Any compression wear, size S.

 

OTHER

GIFT CERTIFICATE OR ADMISSION TO RUSSIAN & TURKISH BATHS IN NYC
TOYS (Especially impact implements)
DONATIONS TO ONE OF THE FOLLOWING NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATIONS (Farm Sanctuary, PETA or Foster Parrots)

FAQS

WHERE DO YOU SESSION?

I session in my own discreet, easily accessed, private and fully-stocked studio in Downtown Los Angeles. My playspace is close to some excellent restaurants, pubs, and cafes should you want/need to unwind after I have disassembled your mind and body 😉

 

WHAT IS YOUR STYLE OF PLAY?


My play style is very flexible, ranging from casual to deep psychological manipulation. I am the queen of role-play, and particularly enjoy inflicting humiliation.

 

DO YOU ENJOY WHAT YOU DO?


I truly enjoy what I do. I take great delight in playing with respectful fetishists, masochists, submissives, and slaves. I am particularly interested in establishing long-term relationships with clients, as I believe play improves with familiarity.

 

WHAT IS YOUR SESSION REQUEST PROTOCOL?

I only take session requests via email unless we play on a consistent basis. When you contact me, you are required to tell me a bit about yourself, your interests, experience level, and possible dates/times for an appointment as well as how you found out about me. You are required to have familiarized yourself with my interests/limits and the information on my website before you contact me. If you fail to do this your request will be ignored.

I get a large number of emails every day so be respectful of my time. It’s a waste of my time and yours to contact me to request sessions I don’t provide. I don’t make exceptions, no matter how special you believe yourself to be and how many other dommes you’ve seen that may have been more flexible when it really came down to it. I am not her.

My goal in this isn’t to be rude or confusing. Rather, I am a Professional, and expect to be treated as such. I will afford you the same respect and courtesy in return. Booking a session should be a smooth, professional, even fun process, free of rudeness and misunderstanding.

Please know your schedule and availability before contacting me. I do not tolerate “speculative” appointments.

For more detailed information on session protocol, see HOW TO MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH A DOMINATRIX.

WHAT ARE YOUR HOURS?

My hours of availability are: 11am to 9pm MONDAY through SUNDAY. That said, I may not be available for a session on your preferred day, so I always encourage you to plan well in advance. I also do not take same day sessions.

 

WHAT ARE YOUR TELEPHONE HOURS?

I do not schedule sessions with first time clients over the phone. See below:

 

WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO WEAR?

I have an extensive collection of fetish clothing in different materials. You will also find plenty of stilettos and boots on my shoe-rack.

 

WHAT ARE YOU INTERESTS AND LIMITS?

See SESSIONS.

 

DO YOU SWITCH?

Absolutely NOT. Under no circumstances whatsoever.

 

I HAVE NEVER HAD A SESSION BEFORE, CAN WE STILL PLAY?

No, I do not see complete beginners. Get a couple of sessions under your belt and contact me again. I will be here for when you are ready.

 

WHAT ELSE DO I NEED TO KNOW BEFORE I EMAIL YOU TO REQUEST A SESSION?


If you are a new client and fail to show up for or confirm a session with me, I will not reconsider you for another session. Period. I am very selective about who I see and have no interest in lecturing people who fail to respect my time; I simply ban them. So do yourself a favor and impress me by not contacting me until you are ready to follow through and commit to time and date.

 

I’VE READ ALL THE INFORMATION ON YOUR WEBSITE AND I AM READY TO CONTACT YOU NOW!


Good, then I look forward hearing from you! CONTACT ME

HOW TO MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH A DOMINATRIX

By Mistress Simone Justice

Updated December, 2010

 

This article was written by, and reprinted here with permission from Mistress Simone Justice.

 

This article was first published in 1994 on my website. I wrote it to help clients find, book an appointment with, and hopefully be invited back by, a professional dominatrix. Much has changed since then, mostly due to the proliferation of the internet. While most of the original text has been maintained, I hope this update will improve its usefulness and relevance for the 2010s.

Whether you are a nervous novice contemplating your first experience or a weekly visitor at the local house of domination, read this article to learn how to find the dominatrix of your dreams (and how not to become her nightmare).

During my years as a professional dominatrix, numerous conversations with my peers revealed common preferences in regards to conduct and procedure for booking appointments. Below, I outline crucial advice for the submissive client seeking a session:

1) List Your Interests


Make a list of the your likes/dislikes to share with the dominatrix, preferably before your first session, so that she will understand what you want from your appointment.

Don’t be concerned that she will only be doing what you want her to do; an experienced dominatrix knows how to take your requests into consideration and still take control of the session. She can also use the information you provide to suggest other things you may find interesting.

If you aren’t sure what to include on your list, pay attention to your fantasies: if you fantasize about a certain fetish frequently, you will probably enjoy it in session.

Categorize your list into things that you (A) have tried and know that you like, (B) are willing to try, and (C) do not want to do. Don't leave anything out just because you are embarrassed or anxious or wish that you didn't want to try it. This is your chance to fulfill your fantasies. Don’t think that the dominatrix will lose respect for you or be shocked by your interests; trust me, she’s heard it all before.

2) Determine Your Level of Play

Go back over your list of interests. Realistically evaluate whether you want Light, Medium, or Heavy play in each area of interest. Remember that the types of play may be combined in session, which may increase the sensation. If you haven’t yet tried something, rate it as Light.

Most importantly, do not say "you can do anything with me, Mistress", because if she’s convinced, a dominatrix might use the opportunity to satisfy her most severe sadistic urges thinking that you are one of the rare few who can handle it. Don't try to impress by overstating your limits ­ you won't!

3) Special Equipment


Most dominatrices will have the basics, such as a paddle, a flogger, a crop, etc., but some fetish play requires specific equipment. Figure out and list your equipment needs, such as: suspension rig, cross-dressing wardrobe, hood, etc. Don't assume that every dominatrix can provide the correct equipment; only the most experienced dominatrices have studios stocked with everything you might need. Furthermore, if you have a specific fetish for something unusual, such as "cabled knee socks", go out and buy the necessary equipment to present to the dominatrix in session.

4) Decide What You Actually Need In A Dominatrix


Think about the most important qualities you would like to find in a dominatrix. Consider such elements as intelligence, personality, physical appearance, and style of play. Some dominatrices have a friendly, compassionate, flexible play style, while others have a distant, haughty, imperial play style.

In order to learn about a client's preferences, I often asked them whom they have seen in the past, what worked with her, and what did not work. Try going over your history to determine the fundamental characteristics of a successful encounter.

Decide what sort of relationship you want. Do you like the short- term anonymity that a house, which employs several dominatrices, can provide, or do you prefer a long-term personal interaction with an independent Mistress?

5) Independent Or House?


Think about which is right for you, an independent dominatrix who works for herself or one on staff at a house of domination.
There are pros and cons for each. Women who work independently may have a private studio (or rent from another dominatrix), generally are experienced, may even be lifestyle, and offer a more personal and long-term connection. However independents are more expensive, sometimes very selective about their submissives, may not see novices, and are less likely to see you at the last minute.

Houses are less expensive, convenient, and offer opportunity for double and group sessions. However, dominatrices at a house are sometimes less experienced, may not be genuinely into BDSM, and often will not stay around for long.

These differences are less reliable than when this article was written as now it is so easy for anyone to post a website and call themselves a professional that independent status no longer means much.

6) Look At Websites


Keeping what you have determined to be important for your session in mind, look at websites for dominatrices in your area. Generally, dominatrices with their own websites are more serious than ones who only advertise.

A good place to start are sites that list dominatrices, such as Max Fisch, DDI, and dickie virgin. Also check out Eros Guide, Fetlife, Facebook and Twitter.

Look for mentions of your specific fetish, but don't assume that a dominatrix is not into your scene just because it isn't listed.
Previously, I warned against the dominatrix who does not show her face…with the advent of the internet and the ease and permanence of sharing photos today…this no longer applies.

Do not allow yourself to be swayed away from your specific needs just because a dominatrix looks good in photos or she is wearing your favorite fetish-wear; you will be disappointed if you are mismatched in other crucial areas.

**Much about finding a dominatrix has changed since this article was first published. There are now so many dominatrices in every part of the world that it has become much more difficult to find the great ones.

It has become necessary for clients to do more research in order to find a safe, experienced dominatrix. Toys and equipment are expensive, which means a dominatrix needs some success to acquire them. Look for photos that prove she has made an investment in domination. Preferably there will be photos showing a well-equipped play space. A photo of a woman on a bed with a paddle in her hand is not a good sign!

Read for clues of expertise in her writing. Does she rely on stereotypical attitude and a predictable stance of arrogance in an attempt to sound dominating? Or does she demonstrate a true understanding of play and the realities of a building and orchestrating a scene?

Look at her wardrobe. Is she wearing inexpensive lingerie? Or does she have all the components of a fetish wardrobe? Entire outfits made of leather or latex are signs of a more experienced dominatrix. Look for accessories like gloves, hats, and expensive items such as thigh-high leather boots. These wardrobe items indicate someone who is serious about her sessions.

Has she trained with someone experienced? Studying under an experienced dominatrix is the best way to become skilled in the art of domination.

Does she travel to fetish events and conferences? Or better yet, does she perform or speak at them?

What level of play does she list? If she only specializes in light interests (such as foot fetish) or if she concentrates on interests that do require much skill do not expect her to have the experience or equipment necessary for a sophisticated intense encounter.

Does she have a good reputation? Look for reviews on her, if you don’t find any, post a request for input from other clients.

It has become critical that you consider these elements when choosing a dominatrix, as there are many great looking women out there whom you will find disappointing in session.**

7) Be Careful


Don't think that less is more. Do not try to save money by going to someone based on tribute alone, BEWARE: if she doesn't know what she’s doing, she could seriously hurt you.

If finances are a concern, I advise visiting a well-known house of domination as opposed to an inexpensive independent. Dominatrices with fully equipped spaces and extensive wardrobes have high overhead, and will demand a higher tribute, but they generally have more technical and safety expertise.

8) How To Write An Introduction


Write a polite, submissive, concise email outlining your specific interests including your thresholds (i.e. light spanking, heavy CBT).
You must include whatever information she has requested or you may not receive an answer. Be sure to pay an online tribute or send a gift card if requested (extra points if not requested).

Dominatrices often screen applicants by ignoring the ones that fail to demonstrate their sincerity. This is necessary because so many applicants are insincere.

Unless requested, you do not have to send a photo of yourself.

Clearly indicate the dates you going to be in her area if traveling and write well in advance as most dominatrices get so much correspondence they can't keep up. Be patient. She is probably not going to have time to get back to you immediately.

See below for some tips that apply to email as well.

9) How to Call and Book the Session


Of course you’ll be nervous when you call; that’s expected, everybody is nervous. Just make the call.
Then follow my directions:


a) Introduce yourself before you start asking questions. Everyday I had to interrupt rude callers to find out whom I was speaking to...most annoying!

b) If you are making up a name choose something unusual instead of Bob, Steve, Mike, or John- there are already too many of those. Make up something unusual and easy to remember ­ for both of you.

c) Call at a decent time.

d) If a receptionist answers, let her do her job (mine was constantly annoyed by callers who tried to just leave a message for me). She has been educated to answer your questions and book appointments. These days you will probably only find receptionists at houses.

e) When speaking to a dominatrix, ask if she is seeing new clients, tell her what you seek, ask questions about her facility, experience level, her specialties or interests, hours, tribute, etc.

However, don't try to press her into saying she does certain things such as golden showers or dildo training. Those activities are illegal and she may not want to discuss them and may deny that she does them. Indicate how important those interests are to you and see if she still encourages you to visit her. However, do pay attention if she makes a point of letting you know she never accommodates those interests.

Yes, yes, I know that many dominatrices these days have no qualms about admitting to these interests and even show photos and videos on their sites. Just know that not everybody is so cavalier about illegal activities.

f) Remember that she is assessing you, so don't keep her on the phone with repetitive questions or idle chitchat, let her know that you respect and value her time.

g) Go ahead and tell her your secret desires, even if you feel embarrassed. She has probably heard it all before.

h) Don't hang up when she answers or call just to hear her voice on the machine ­ she will have caller ID and it will make her angry with you. She might block you or refuse to see you.

i) Don't make an appointment if it sounds like you won't like her, she is too bossy or disrespectful, or you seem mismatched.

j) Don't book a time if you can't make it or if you aren't really sure.

k) Write down the directions and address including suite number. Note any assignments she gives you and the answers to your questions so that you can review later.

l) If you can't keep your appointment, cancel as soon as possible. She will appreciate it because no-shows cost money since she saves the time for you by turning down other bookings.

10) The Appointment


Confirm as instructed. Be on time. Early is as bad as late. Follow orders.

Speak up about any safety concerns or if you are not enjoying the session.

LEAVE if she seems to be drunk or on drugs- a very dangerous combination with BDSM. Leave if the dominatrix is not who you saw in the photo. Leave if she does not have elements necessary to your scene, such as specific equipment or wardrobe. Leave if the space is dirty or looks poorly maintained; that may indicate unsafe practices.

11) What to Expect in Session


A receptionist might answer the door or the dominatrix may answer in street clothes. You might have to wait in a room for her to finish up with another client. You might have to fill out a questionnaire about your likes/dislikes. You might be required to pay up front. You might be left to take off your clothes after a brief meeting with the dominatrix (but legally she can't tell you to undress without risk, so take a hint). She might give you a safeword (a word that will let her know you can't take more of the same) before she starts to play. Act according to her direction - some dominatrices demand strict adherence to conduct befitting a slave, others don't care if you act submissive.

Don't have unrealistic expectations ­ the session will not match your fantasies perfectly. And definitely do not bring a line-by-line script. Be open to her and let her do her thing ­ you might find it better than your script.

12) What NOT to Expect in Session


Realize that when a dominatrix says "no sex" she truly means it in the broadest interpretation. There will be no sex of any kind. None.

Know that she won't be taking off her clothes, dancing, massaging, or letting you kiss intimate body parts ­ go see someone else for these activities.

13) How to Be Invited Back


Be clean. Really, really clean. Be respectful. Be obedient.

If you want to make an impression, bring her a little something such as a gag, blindfold, scented candle, gift card or flowers. Better yet, ask her if she has a wishlist or something specific she would appreciate.

Go over your list of likes/dislikes with the receptionist or dominatrix so that it is fresh in her mind. You can bring a printout but do not expect her to accept it. Do not bring a script. Experienced dominatrices abhore scripts.

Speak up if she pushes beyond your limits - a good dominatrix will appreciate the input without being threatened. Don't try to impress by surpassing your limits; you will both regret it.

Understand that she may have another client waiting, so don't hang around so long that you put her into an uncomfortable situation.

Help her to clean up. Keep your curiosity about her to yourself rather than asking personal questions.

Demonstrate your gratitude ­ tell her how great the session was and that you want to see her again. It is not too early to book your next appointment.

14) Tips


If she works in a house of domination and you enjoyed the session, tip her. House dominas only get a percentage of the full tribute. It is not necessary to tip an independent dominatrix. Only do so if you feel compelled by excellence.

15) Follow Up


Afterwards write down your impressions, wait a few days to fully assess your reactions. Sometimes you will find activities that were unpleasant in session, are actually quite exciting afterwards. This is a common experience. Some BDSM is highly anticipated before, despised during, and relished after the act.

Evaluate whether you want to see her again and figure out the positive and negative elements of your session so that you can pass that information on to the next dominatrix you see whether it is her or someone else.

Adjust your list of limits, if you have learned more about your preferences and abilities. When you write or call again don't Be vague saying "Hi, its Joe" ­ she probably speaks to a lot of men named Joe. Remind her of who you are by name, appearance, or what you did in session, without her having to ask.

If you follow my advice, you will know enough about proper protocol and preferences to realize your fantasies in an appointment with the right professional dominatrix.

LINKS

This is not a link/banner exchange page. These are other pro-dommes whom I sincerely recommend and I know are extremely good at what they do.

LINKS

MISTRESS CYNTHIA STONE

MISTRESS CYNTHIA STONE

Los Angeles

Playfully Sadistic, Mental and Novice Training, Medical, Corporal, Bondage, Trampling and More

MISTRESS EKATARINA ROMANOVICH

MISTRESS EKATARINA ROMANOVICH

Los Angeles

Bondage, Spanking, Role Play

MISTRESS SIMONE JUSTICE

MISTRESS SIMONE JUSTICE

Los Angeles

Discipline, Bondage, Slave Training

MISTRESS GEORGIA PAYNE

MISTRESS GEORGIA PAYNE

Los Angeles
MISTRESS EVELYN

MISTRESS EVELYN

NYC

Creative, Playful, Warm, Selective Lifestyle Domina

MISTRESS ROXY JEZEL

MISTRESS ROXY JEZEL

Austin